• On Good Things Utah this morning – In a TikTok video that has garnered over 545,000 views, Alysse Gilbert explains that she and her two children had just returned from a shopping trip at Trader Joe’s. However, a disturbing incident involving a stranger and her nearly two-year-old daughter left her “shaking in anger” even after they got home, prompting the mom to ask other parents what they would have done if they were in her shoes.
    • According to Gilbert, while grocery shopping with her two young children, her infant son was in an infant carrier strapped to her chest while her daughter sat in the shopping cart. Gilbert described her daughter as a “very vocal” toddler who would often grab the attention of strangers in public. During this particular store run, one older woman noticed the little girl and took a shine to her. “She says to my daughter, ‘Oh, you’re so cute!'” Gilbert recalled. She thanked the woman before going on her way with her children. However, they ran into the same woman again in the next aisle. “I can see out of the corner of my eye she was doing something, but then I heard my daughter say, ‘I don’t like her,'” the mother said. “So I turn to her, and she’s pretending to tickle my daughter from afar.” Since her daughter had expressed her discomfort, Gilbert turned the shopping cart in a direction that was facing away from the woman. The woman, however, got closer and continued to move her fingers through the air while looking at the little girl as if she was tickling her.
      • “I heard my daughter say ‘Don’t touch me!’ and she’s backing leaning back in the cart,” Gilbert shared. The woman’s response was perhaps what threw her off the most. “The lady says to her, ‘That’s not very nice, sweetie,'” Gilbert said. That was when the mother stepped in to protect her daughter’s boundaries. “I said to her the woman, ‘You’re clearly making her uncomfortable cause she doesn’t know you,'” Gilbert shared. The woman responded dismissively while laughing and walking away.
        • The incident left Gilbert feeling especially uneasy. While she acknowledged that her toddler perhaps did not respond in the kindest way when the woman approached her, she pointed out that the little girl was feeling anxious since the woman was a stranger to her. “What is it with the older generations forcing kids they don’t know to interact with them?” Gilbert asked her viewers. “Please tell me what you would have done.”
        • Most parents were appalled by the stranger’s actions but praised Gilbert’s daughter for asserting her personal boundaries. “You should never regret fiercely protecting your child!” one TikTok user commented. “I would’ve told that lady off,” another user shared. “You did great. As moms, one of our core missions is to teach our daughters to speak truthfully and not be polite to strangers who violate boundaries,” another user wrote. “I love that your daughter knows boundaries and that she isn’t afraid to make that known!” one commenter applauded. “Your daughter was awesome! Exactly what she should have said,” another added.
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