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Parents sue school over son's suicide


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Updated: 1/24 4:03 pm | Published: 1/20 5:46 pm
Reported by: Marcos Ortiz
MT. PLEASANT Utah (ABC 4 News) – It was a call for help that went unanswered.

And according to a lawsuit filed in U.S. District Court, it cost Jacob Hancock his life.

Hancock was a senior at North Sanpete High School when he committed suicide in 2010

"This is a case about a social issue,” said the Hancock family attorney Justin Heideman. “It's about a problem that is epidemic in our system."

According to the lawsuit, bullying and hazing were responsible for Hancock’s suicide.

He committed suicide after spending his high school days at North Sanpete High in fear.

“There were individuals that began harassing him that made him feel intimidated it began when he was in 8th grade,” said Heideman.

The lawsuit names the North Sanpete School District, Mt. Pleasant police and others at the school.

The lawsuit claims Hancock was continually called “gay” and other derogatory names associated with the lifestyle by a group of boys.

But Hancock wasn't gay. He was athletic and participated sports in school.

“He loved rodeo, football and wrestling,” said his high school friend who didn’t want to be identified. “I was on the football and wrestling team with him and it was a lot of fun.”

But his attorney claims Hancock couldn't get away from the bullying and threats from certain classmates.

"This kid was told quote, unquote ‘get used to being in bed’” said Heideman. “He was going to be beat up or killed."

And when the then school officials were told about the bullying, the lawsuit claims the Hancoks were ignored.

In once incident the lawsuit claims Hancock was sexually assaulted by a special-ed student.

“Several students convinced the special-ed student to “grab the towel off of (Jacob) and touch (his) private parts. (The student) grabbed the towel, poked him several times in the penis and then took (Jacob’s) towel and urinated on the towel. The classmates laughed at him and (Jacob),” the lawsuit said.

According to the lawsuit the incident was reported to the school district by Hancock’s parents.

“The school district’s response was to offer to purchase the Hancocks a new towel,” the lawsuit said.

Hancock’s parents spoke with the school principal about the number of threats and bullying of their son.

“(The principal) essentially told Bradd (Hancock) that (Jacob) should just fight (his tormentors and that would solve the problem because that’s how it was done in times past,” the lawsuit said.

During his football years, Hancock was allegedly abused by his football coach.

The lawsuit claims “the football coach was abusive and demeaning towards (Jacob).” In one scene the lawsuit claims the coach in front of the team told Jacob “he looked like a pedophile.”

For five years Hancock endured the taunting.

“We knew what he was going through but we never asked him about it really,” his friend said.

And when he was assaulted at the school, his attorney claims police arrested him and later on according to the lawsuit Jacob came under investigation by police because "(Jacob) had raped some girls"

But that investigation went nowhere. Hancock was charged with assault for “tickling a girl.”

The family claims Jacob was labeled a trouble maker and was told to leave the school and the district.

"He made a plea for help they did everything they could do and had to do and that plea went unheard,” said Heideman.

His senior year, Hancock took his own life.

"I think it’s really sad and it’s really sad the community or the teachers didn't notice behavioral issues,” said Sabrina Larson who lives in the same town as the Hancocks, Fountain Green. “I think it’s sad for the family and I think it’s sad for the community.”

Hancock was buried in Fountain Green. After his burial a girl left a note on his headstone.

“The note said ‘I'm sorry for what happened to you I wish I would have stood up for you that day,’” said Heideman.

Heideman said he wants to talk to this person who left that note.

The school district had no comment.
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austin12 - 2/13/2012 9:54 PM
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Hey inmyopinion.26 why don't you learn a few things before you comment on what you don't know about. What a sad response from uncaring people. What are you trying to bully people that are dead. His dad was a great dad I don't think you know what you are talking about or maybe you are incompetent and work for the police or school down there call me Lisa Hancock

austin12 - 2/13/2012 9:43 PM
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How dare you people speak ill of the dead, didn't your mothers teach you any manners. Jacob Hancock is my nephew and it sickens me your lack of respect. I personally can relate to schools doing NOTHING and I can say that his father is a respected stand up guy. How dare you!!!! These comments sadden me I cannot believe this callous response soooo sad that this is what Utah is about. Lisa Hancock

armymother - 1/26/2012 6:02 PM
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This is a terrible situation to be in as a parent. The guilt and sadness will never leave them. If he was a bully--why didn't someone step in to see why he was or stand up to him? Sometimes there is abuse from the home and the child feels like he can only control the outside world by lashing out. If he was bullied and no one stood up for Jacob and witnessed the torment he suffered shame on you for not standing up to the bully. There is enough blame to go around in this situation, possibly the parents, students, teachers and principal. And to "justme" if you felt his home was unsafe--why didn't you help him? Apparently Jacob felt he had no other way to handle things and "checking out" was what he felt--my heart goes out to him for feeling this way. To feel you have no other means to deal with everyday life is very sad and I feel it is not only a family issue but a community issue. It takes a village to raise a child and ultimately the outcome was bad. Do not judge or point blame on anyone because I assure you the individuals involved know what he or she did to make Jacob feel this way will feel the sadness for a long time. The school lawsuit will amount to nothing we all know that...I think it just makes the parents feel better to do something for him since he passed away because they failed him in life. Parents are not mind readers neither is anyone in the school district but sometimes all it takes is a kind word to someone to help him or her want to reach out when and if they need help. My heart breaks because the community is placing blame on everyone and not looking at what could be done to avoid this happening again. Bullied or bulling the results are the same---hes gone bottom line hes gone.

someoneno1knew - 1/25/2012 2:29 PM
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I think it's sad to hear about someone comitting suicide. I'm surprised more people haven't committed suicide due to lack of taking care of the bullying. I myself have dropped out of school due to this issue because no one wants to take care of it. It's about bloody time a school got sued for it. As for Jake I did know him and he was a good friend. I will never forget him. I never did see him bully anyone but I have seen others bully smaller people or smaller people bullying someone way out of their league. My saying is, "Get to know someone before you judge. And if you don't, I'm pretty sure there are going to be consequences." So, if he bullied someone I'm sorry to hear it. I never saw him bully anyone but I have seen a lot of others getting bullied. The issue has to stop somewhere it doesn't matter what anyone did it's the issue that's been going on forever. And for the parents I never knew you because I never hung around Jake but I am very sorry for your loss.

justme - 1/24/2012 12:43 PM
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This story sickens me,and I wish people would be honest, I too have a son that was friends with Jacob(Red)..and for his parents to try and blame this all on the school is typical for them,sadly Jacob did have problems, and anyone who was friends with him at all most likely knew about his problems.He spent alot of time staying at his friends houses including the friend who is interviewed on here and he just like most of Jacobs good friends knows that it was not school Jacob hated and feared... it was HOME, he had a very rocky relationship with his Dad and hated to be at home, because of this would stay almost anywhere that he was able to.I only wish that instead of his parents doing this and blaming everyone else for what happened, that they would have looked into where they possibly failed their child, none of us are perfect parents,but there was a big lack of communication there with Jacob and his parents. If it were really the school, there are a couple of ways to handle that, #1 being home school, and if that didnt work unfortunately kids have dropped out of school, sadly Jacob chose to drop out of LIFE!!!!!

Venetia - 1/23/2012 7:00 PM
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Its about time someone stood up to them.I'm so very sorry for your loss. North Sanpete has had this issue for a long time sorry those who don't see are choosing to ignore it. I attended the school and saw first hand. Both my brothers dropped out because of the bullying from other students and the staff. The discouragement they received is sad. I'm grateful my children will not be attending this school. Thanks

Tsackett - 1/23/2012 5:20 PM
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Sorry to say but i did go to high school with jake, are there bullies there, yes. was jake bullied, maybe. but i do know he was a bully in the terms set above as well. I know the girl he "mooed" at and the people he tormented with his group of friends. i saw him use "the special ed" student metion to do simular thing to his friends. i never saw him bullied, not to say that he wasn't i just didn't see it, but i did see him bully, and when i did i generally made it a point to say something to him and his friends. the bad thing is he was considered one of the coaches favorites, and was apart of the elite group. i am sorry that he committed suicide but i know he caused some people to think about it as well.

sweetjenw - 1/23/2012 12:04 PM
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I went to North Sanpete as well and so did all my family. My sister was actually a year older than Jacon Hancock and said herself he was the Bully. He was constantly with a group of kids that called her fat and "mooed" at her. Even though my sister was physically fit and healthy. She was shocked when we told her this story because she said he was always the bully..not the other way around.

inmyopinion26 - 1/22/2012 10:37 PM
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I find it ironic that Mr Hancock is claiming his son committed suicide because of bullying and blaming it on the school district. I know Mr Hancock and I had a child who attended school with Jacob. I've seen Mr Hancock try to bully and intimidate people himself to get his way which makes me feel like, if he could bully and intimidate strangers, it would be only logical that he is the same way with his children. Growing up with such emotional and psychological abuse from a father would weigh a great deal on a child's perception of himself and the world around him. It doesn't surprise me that Jacob suffered from depression but I don't believe it to be at the hands of a school district. If things were so bad for your child, Mr Hancock, why did you continue to send him to this school for 5 years? If the things you're claiming actually happened to a child for 5 years of schooling, any normal parent would have removed their child immediately. Your actions in handling the matters that you claim happened simply don't make any sense. I can't imagine the grief a parent faces when losing a child, especially to losing a child to suicide, Mr Hancock. However, trying to place the blame somewhere is not going to heal you. Your claim states that you want money for the loss of companionship you will have with your son. Companionship with your child is priceless, Mr Hancock. I find it very disturbing and demented that you could actually put a price on that.

SakOut - 1/22/2012 1:19 PM
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I also went to NSHS and graduated in '09, and I can tell you that since this is a rural community, and things do not change very often. If they do, it is at a slow pace. I was also bullied for much of my middle school and high school career. I rarely ever saw Jake, so I can't necessarily comment on his behavior during school. Although, I never once heard of the school going into lockdown because he was on the premises. Depending on his coach, I might be able to believe to the accusations of him calling Jake a pedophile. As far as the principal is concerned, I have never met a kinder, nor greater man. When I was being bullied, I sometimes fought back, even to the point of physical confrontation, but because he is so kind, he understood what I was going through, and often helped me to deal with my problems. There are or were certain teachers that I could understand that would have not taken any action against the bullying, but there were definitely many more who tried everyday to stop the torture of students. It is the lack of culture that brings the air of old country solutions to modern day problems. Sanpete has fallen so far behind as a social group, that often more than not, people tend to look the other way, mostly due to embarrassment, or "being raised that way." On the other hand, not ALL the blame can be laid upon the school. I understand that Jake's parents are still trying to deal with the fact he is gone, but they must also realize that they played a part in this as well. I had often thought of suicide, but because of my parents, and my religious leaders, I was able to stave off such actions. If there is no support at home, or at church, then an air of depression is definitely present. I also have great respect for the Mt. Pleasant police. They do their job rather well, despite being so understaffed. Please do not write such propaganda, because without all the facts, this story is false.
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