Ethan Stacy's father did not want him in Utah


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Updated: 5/16/2010 8:29 pm | Published: 5/16/2010 5:27 pm
Reported by: Noah Bond
Ethan Stacy
Ethan Stacy

LAYTON, Utah (ABC 4 News) - Ethan's tragic murder has captured the hearts of thousands in Utah and across the United States.  Many of our viewers want to know more about the relationship between his biological father and mother.

Ethan Stacy was born in Georgia to a loving family.  It didn't take long for things to go terribly wrong.  "He's beyond devastated. It's a moment by moment day by day thing with him," said Ethan's Aunt Ereka Akers.  The grief is too much for Ethan's 36-year-old biological father Joe Stacy.

This story begins in Georgia when times were better.  Ethan's parents lived on the Fort Stewart Hunter Army Airbase before they divorced.  Ethan's uncle and aunt lived on base as well.

Ereka remembers watching Ethan on the base.  "He was definitely a quiet shy boy, but he definitely liked boy things.  Cars and trucks and all that kind of stuff," she said.

Ethan didn't know the turmoil his parents would face.  His father kept the problems quiet as long as possible.  "He did not trust her.  He felt that she was extremely unstable," said Akers.

Ethan's Aunt said Stephanie would leave Ethan and his father.  She said the instability hit a breaking point last Thanksgiving when Joe and Ethan were at Ereka's home.  "Stephanie called Joe and said she wanted to relinquish all of her parental rights.  That was the big conversation because that was a shock to him," she said.

Stepanie changed her mind and a judge gave her visitation rights.  Joe tried to stop the visit, but was forced to let Ethan go.  Ethan recently moved to Virginia with his father to start a new life.  "Joe did not feel comfortable with her having any custody especially so far away," Ereka said.

Finally, Ethan's body was found buried near Powder Mountain in Utah.  The news is still devastating because of the warning signs leading up to the boys death.

Ethan's biological father never suspected his son would be murdered.  He was afraid Stephanie would kid nap him, according to Ereka.

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Morgansmammy - 5/19/2010 7:41 AM
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To Joe Stacy, my heart goes out to you on this day. I cannot understand what hell you must be going through and I pray to god that I never find out, being a mother to a 4 year old boy myself. I am sure the angels are looking after him now and that he is smiling down on you as you were obviously the light of his life and I beleive that he will find his way back to you xxx For little Ethan, god bless you little cherub and rest well xxx

IdahoStevenKL - 5/17/2010 7:59 AM
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Where was Sloop's family, doesn't his mother live in the same or nearby area? Like many others, I can't believe that not a single outside person saw Ethan during those four horrible days! Public funding of child custody would in my opinion act to slow the rise of these types of crimes, a Federal Law that allows parents to have an evaluation and periodic health and welfare visits (no cause needed) during cross-state visitation should be included. There are agencies that all already exsist that could possibly handle this, one that comes to mind is Community Action Partnership. C.A.P. serves different functions in different states, in Idaho for example, Adult Protection (Vunerable/Diabled) is operated by C.A.P. I am writing both Federal and State lawmakers from each and every state in hopes of finding support for an idea such as this. I must say that I personally can find comfort in knowing how much Ethan is loved by family!!!

karen1963 - 5/16/2010 10:20 PM
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What I want to know is why no one in the apartment complex heard anything? Come on people with all the abuse this poor child went through you cannot tell me he was not screaming in pain? I live in a complex and I know someone had to heard something and as usual just minded their own business. I feel they also let this poor little boy down.
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