Hello.i know about relaity checks..i will be having sergery on Tue Jan 29th 2013 on my brain for an anurisum...i am glad to know you all are doing better.I know it is scary to face these truths...i know it will be wonderful to take Max home and i hope he does well and so i wanted to saygood luck and that i will pray for all of you..take care and hugs, Brenda Robinson Sotelo