A mother hears the heartbeat of her deceased son


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Updated: 5/07/2012 6:15 pm | Published: 5/06/2012 11:19 pm
SALT LAKE CITY (ABC 4 News) – Two families share a life altering bond; one lives in North Dakota, the other in Utah. One's tragedy became the other's miracle, and in an act of kindness, a mother is able to hear the beat of her son’s heart nearly a year after his death.


Mikey Fetzer was struck by a car and died last June. His mother, Bobbie Fetzer, says living without him hasn't been easy for his family. “It is very hard to get up every morning."

But the decision to donate his organs was made easy by the sweet seven year old. Mikey told his mom he wanted to be an organ donor after hearing about it at school.

"Mikey came home from school and said 'I want to donate my organs'. Little did we know, two weeks later, we would be making that decision. "

The accident, and that decision, was life changing for people coast to coast; including Mia Brickey, a 12-year-old from Salt Lake City who is alive because of Mikey's heart.

Bobbi says it brings her comfort. “I wake up knowing she is living and breathing, and that to me is amazing."

Months after Mikey's death Bobbi got a card from Mia’s family, thanking the Fetzers for giving the gift of life. It expressed wonder at the circumstances that brought the families together. “We don't know why our child was given this miracle."

A little later, another letter arrived. This one was from Mia. "There are no ways to express my thankfulness for Mikey's heart."

Then one afternoon, an email with an attachment popped up. It was one more letter; and in the attachment, there was a video of Mia’s ultrasound. Mikey's mom could hear, and see her son's beating heart. “It is so wonderful to have that he is still beating in her."

It was a small act of kindness from a Utah family that still struggles to find words to express how grateful they are. Tom Brickey says “I have always wanted this opportunity to talk about Mikey, because for six months I could not, because I would start crying."

Mia is happy and healthy. “I am very thankful for what they did, and I am feeling great and doing awesome."

She has a future because of a seven year old boy who told his mother he would do great things one day. "He was a giver; a real giver." Bobbi says it's a comfort knowing part of him is still there. “He and Mia are going to do great things together."



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MC Mike - 5/7/2012 1:26 PM
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Great comment. Keep up the good work.

LIFESHARERS - 5/7/2012 11:14 AM
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If more people were as generous as Mikey Fetzer, we wouldn’t have over 50% of Americans waiting for organ transplants dying each year. Most of these deaths are needless. Americans bury or cremate 20,000 transplantable organs every year. There are now over 114,000 people on the National Transplant Waiting List. There is a simple way to put a big dent in the organ shortage – give donated organs first to people who have agreed to donate their own organs when they die. Giving organs first to organ donors will convince more people to register as organ donors. It will also make the organ allocation system fairer. People who aren’t willing to share the gift of life should go to the back of the waiting list as long as there is a shortage of organs. Anyone who wants to donate their organs to others who have agreed to donate theirs can join LifeSharers. LifeSharers is a non-profit network of organ donors who agree to offer their organs first to other organ donors when they die. Membership is free at www.lifesharers.org or by calling 1-888-ORGAN88. There is no age limit, parents can enroll their minor children, and no one is excluded due to any pre-existing medical condition. LifeSharers has over 15,000 members, including 70 members in Utah. Please contact Dave Undis, Executive Director of LifeSharers, if your readers would like to learn more about our innovative approach to increasing the number of organ donors. He can arrange interviews with some of our local members if you’re interested. His email address is daveundis@lifesharers.org. His phone number is 615-351-8622. .
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