Cyberbullying prompts teen to attempt suicide


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Updated: 2/01 12:37 am | Published: 1/31 9:50 pm
Reported by: Noah Bond
"They just don't get it. I could have lost my daughter that night and what an impact that would have made for me and my family just because somebody feels like they need to say and do mean things," -Alisha Yates.
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PAYSON, Utah (ABC 4 News) - A cyberbully is targeting teens in Utah County. The culprit posted nasty comments over the pictures of forty teens in the Payson area. 

"I've been called a slut, a whore," said Taneisha Yates.

"My first reaction was to just start crying," said Shyanne Spencer.

One attack reads, "Why don't guys like me? Cuz, You're fat and gross."

Another attack reads, "I love looking like crap all the time."

"I don't really have friends.  I'm just trying to find someone to be around," said Taneisha.  "I got text messages that weren't very nice I guess," she continued.

She says she reached her braking point in November. " They were just bringing me down and I couldn't handle it anymore," said Taneisha.

She reached for the medicine cabinet in an attempt to kill herself, "I took some pills and then went to sleep."  She wanted to die because of the pain, but woke the next morning and returned to school where she says the bullying continued.

Her mother says she feels unable to protect her daughter. "They just don't get it.  I could have lost my daughter that night and what an impact that would have made for me and my family just because somebody feels like they need to say and do mean things," said Alisha Yates.

ABC 4 sat down with a first amendment attorney.  "Is cyberbullying illegal in Utah?" asked ABC 4's Noah Bond. "It's more of a gray area, but courts have imposed liability," Jeff Hunt replied.

It's a gray area because Utah law only targets online bullies who work from school property. 

Hunt says victims can take action by contacting the bully or the website and ask for the content to be removed.  If this doesn't work the victim can hire a lawyer to send a cease and desist order.  It will cost between $100 and $300.

The parents who sat down with ABC 4 say they're not satisfied with the best solutions available in Utah.  "That's going to stay with my daughter forever and it's hard for me," said Nicolli Bascom.

The cyber attacks against forty Utah County teens were up for only a few hours; enough time for the attacks to be shared and spread across the internet where they will remain for a long time. 

"I just wish they could go to the pictures and track the person," said Shyanne.

Payson Police are actively investigating this case and the Nebo School District is working closely with police.  

Parents say it's hard to get answers to their questions.  "That's telling me nothings going to be taken care of.  Nothings going to get done," Alisha said.

The cyberbully who targeted the forty Utah County teens promised to strike again.

"I'm just scared because I don't want more people to hate me," Taneisha said.

"If something isn't done now I'm going to see this through to the end.  I'm going to make sure something is done," said Nicolli.

"Somebody needs to step up to the plate and take responsibility to actually do something to stop cyberbullying," Alisha said.

Click on the attached link to get help if you or someone you know is a victim of cyberbullying.




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Dennis - 2/1/2013 2:23 PM
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I think Noah intentionally writes like that just to test AZ Jan's "braking" point. Seems to work pretty well, though, 'cause she locks up all four almost every time she slams them/him on. Betcha she prolly goes through lots of tires, tho, 'cause it's easier than going thru the roof and losing her head. :) :) :) Kinda reminds me of the funny Burma-Shave signs we used to read along the highways when I was a kid: "Don't lose your head to save a minute, you need your head, you're brains are in it." :) :) :) So carry on, Noah. It's a real jungle out there! :) But apparently not so much as the cyberspace jungle kids face today by trying to exist in a world of social-media websites frantically searching for someone to "like" them, or being horrified if they don't and post bad things about them. It was easier growing up in a simpler world of Burma-Shave signs and telling them to our friends face-to-face so we could see and enjoy their body language as we all tried to make each other laugh and enjoy life on a personal level. Perhaps there's something to be said for "the good old days." But I can't imagine what "the good old days" will be like for the generations growing up today who can't seem to make contact with reality unless they are mesmerized in front of a computer screen or endlessly texting each other as if it were their lifeline enabling them to swing through their own cyberspace jungles like a modern-day Tarzan. Interesting article, Noah, in more ways than one. Now back to our concrete jungle like so many avatars in a video game. And if I happen to run into journalist-critic AZ Jan, I'll give her a banana for her monkey just so she knows it's all in good humor (I hope). :)

uucknaaa - 2/1/2013 6:56 AM
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Calm down. Hopefully you got a good nites rist after suc a meen coment.

AZ Jan - 1/31/2013 11:56 PM
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Spelling! Punctuation!! Please!!!!! Shouldn't a reporter be required to be able to write the English language, if the articles they're writing are in English???????!
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